“Is It Possible We Could Develop an Alternative Model of Loving Each Other?” : Character Dynamics in Sally Rooney’s Conversations with Friends

Abstract

In my thesis I analyze the interpersonal dynamics in Sally Rooney’s Conversations with Friends (2017). Conversations with Friends revolves around the protagonist Frances who I use as an anchor and a link between other pivotal characters Bobbi, Nick and Melissa. The four grapple with secrets, lies and infidelity, these being themes I highlight in my analysis. In my thesis I argue that with this novel, Sally Rooney subtly makes a case for alternative relationship models as opposed to traditional monogamous relationships. As the title suggests, I focus on the theme of finding “an alternative model of loving each other” as the characters, especially Frances, come to terms with having romantic feelings and desires towards more than one person at once. I explore Frances’s relationships through the lens of her bisexuality and discuss the ways in which she develops different dynamics with different love interests, Bobbi and Nick respectfully.